• Recent Absence

    From Black Panther@21:1/186 to All on Tue Jan 11 12:18:10 2022
    Hello All!

    Wow do I have a lot of messages to catch up on here... :)

    I just wanted to first of all, thank Paul for posting a message in regards to my absence recently.

    I also wanted to thank you all for the best wishes, as our family is (still) going through some tough times.

    This is just going to be a brief update, to let you know what's been happening here. Right before Christmas, my wife ended up in the emergency room. Right before New Years, my wife's brother-in-law passed away from a short battle with cancer. Then, right after the new year, my wife was in the emergency room again.

    She is scheduled for surgery on 8 Feb, to hopefully take care of both cancer in her uterus, along with a tumor on her kidney.

    As you can probably tell, she is very concerned about this. Within the last 4 years, she has lost her brother and mother to cancer, and now her brother-in-law. She has also lost her father, but not to cancer. Our kids and I have been trying to keep her mind in a positive place, but it has been a challenge.

    I'm trying to get my mind in a better place as well, and try to start getting some much needed things done here on Castle Rock. I have been in contact with a few of you via email, in reference to requests made during my absence. If you haven't heard from me, I apologize as I have missed your message.

    Black Panther

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  • From seeLive@21:2/128 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 15:14:34 2022
    I won't quote it, but wow I'm so sorry to hear that... My Fiance and I went though that a few years ago... It's rough, but you seem to be handling better than we did... Good luck and try to stay positive... it makes a difference... Take care.

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  • From Blue White@21:4/134 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 15:56:52 2022
    Black Panther wrote to All <=-

    She is scheduled for surgery on 8 Feb, to hopefully take care of both cancer in her uterus, along with a tumor on her kidney.

    Here's hoping that they get it all, and all goes well!


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  • From McDoob@21:4/135 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 16:35:04 2022
    I just wanted to first of all, thank Paul for posting a message in
    regards to my absence recently.

    I also wanted to thank you all for the best wishes, as our family is (still) going through some tough times.

    I am sorry to hear how bad things are for you and your family, and your wife
    in particular. I don't dare speak for everyone here, but I think it's safe to say that we understand why you've been absent. Life comes first, always.

    Stay positive!

    McDoob
    SysOp, PiBBS
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  • From Cozmo@21:3/135 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 17:40:32 2022
    BP, I'm so sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Hang in there man!

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  • From Bucko@21:4/131 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 18:53:16 2022
    On 11 Jan 2022, Black Panther said the following...

    Hello All!

    Wow do I have a lot of messages to catch up on here... :)

    Thinking about you bud.. Your family is in my thoughts...

    Al

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  • From Mike Dippel@21:4/173 to Black Panther on Tue Jan 11 22:10:30 2022
    Re: Recent Absence
    By: Black Panther to All on Tue Jan 11 2022 12:18 pm

    I am a 3 time cancer survivor. I can sympathise with your situation, but I am positive proof that you CAN survive.

    My prayers are with her and your family.

    Mike Dippel
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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to Black Panther on Wed Jan 12 16:54:28 2022
    On 11 Jan 2022 at 12:18p, Black Panther pondered and said...

    I also wanted to thank you all for the best wishes, as our family is (still) going through some tough times.

    Let me know if there is anything I can do to support you guys. Sending you both lots of good vibes.

    I'm trying to get my mind in a better place as well, and try to start getting some much needed things done here on Castle Rock. I have been in contact with a few of you via email, in reference to requests made

    If BBSing and echomail etc. can provide you with some much needed downtime and a nice experience I say go for it :) I'm sure you will find support and care in here.

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