Arguments between couples: Our neurons like mediation
Date:
July 29, 2020
Source:
Universite' de Gene`ve
Summary:
When couples argue, mediation improves the outcome of the
confrontation.
But that's not all: mediation is also linked to heightened activity
in key regions of the brain belonging to the reward circuit. This
is the first time that a controlled, randomized study has succeeded
in demonstrating the advantages of mediation for couple conflicts
and identifying a related biological signature.
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When couples argue, mediation by a third party improves the outcome of the confrontation. But that's not all: mediation is also linked to heightened activity in key regions of the brain belonging to the reward circuit --
this is the main conclusion of a study carried out by scientists from the University of Geneva (UNIGE) and published in the journal Cortex. The experiment consisted of giving couples behavioural questionnaires and subjecting them to functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) prior
to and following a session in which the two partners argue. Couples who received active mediation reported higher satisfaction than non-mediated couples at the end of the conflict. Heightened activation in the nucleus accumbens, a key region in the reward circuit, was also identified in the mediation group compared to the control group. This is the first time
that a controlled, randomised study has succeeded in demonstrating the advantages of mediation for couple conflicts and identifying a related biological signature.
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"We know from numerous studies that thinking about romantic love and your romantic partner activates the so-called reward circuit in the brain,
which is associated with feelings of pleasure and motivation," begins Olga Klimecki, a researcher at the Swiss Center for Affective Sciences (CISA)
and in UNIGE's Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences. "Until
now, however, we didn't know the impact that couple conflict, and
mediation by a third party, could have on this activation. It was
precisely to fill this gap that we devised our study." To conduct
their experiment, the researchers enrolled 36 heterosexual couples (for statistical reasons and for comparison with previous studies) who were monogamous (according to the statements made by the couples themselves)
and who had been together for at least a year. Before coming to UNIGE, participants had to check off a list of 15 standard subjects (in-laws, sexuality, finances, household chores, time spent together, etc.) which
most often fuelled conflict with their partner.
Sources of conflict "We then invited participants to start a discussion
about one of these subjects," explains Halima Rafi, a doctoral
student in the Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences, and the article's first author. "Some of the couples chose a box ticked by both partners. Others preferred to start on a subject that only one of the
partners considered a source of conflict. This worked just as well, if
not better. The first ten minutes were a generally little embarrassing,
but things then began to flow with an impressive naturalness, and
inevitably ended in conflict." The session, which lasted one hour,
was accompanied by a professional mediator who mediated the dispute in
half of the cases. In the other half, the mediator remained entirely
passive. Participants completed a behavioural questionnaire before and
after their argument to measure their emotional state. In each couple
one member's brain activity was measured before and after the dispute
while they were shown images of their romantic partner or images of an
unknown person.
General deactivation Data from the questionnaires indicated that couples
who benefited from active mediation were better at resolving conflicts,
were more satisfied with the content and progress of the discussion,
and had fewer residual disagreements.
"As for the neuroimaging results," continues Rafi, "the activations
before the conflict replicated earlier studies on romantic love,
showing an activation pattern in brain regions such as the striatum and orbitofrontal cortex. After the dispute, we quite logically observed
a general deactivation in both groups in the regions associated with
romantic love, including the striatum." By contrast, when comparing
couples who received active mediation with those who did not, the
researchers found that the former tended to have greater activation in
the nucleus accumbens after the conflict, which is a key region in the
brain's reward circuit. Moreover, the participants who felt the most
satisfied after the resolution of the conflict also had the highest
nucleus accumbens activation when looking at their romantic partner
compared to an unknown person.
"Our results suggest, for the first time, that third-party mediation
has a significant and positive impact on the way couples argue, both behaviourally and neurally," concludes Klimecki. "This biological
signature for romantic love is very interesting because it cannot be manipulated in the same way that an answer to a questionnaire could
be. We would now like to continue the research and see, for example,
whether we can measure similar effects in conflicts of a different type
and not necessarily concerning love."
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========================================================================== Journal Reference:
1. Halima Rafi, Franc,ois Bogacz, David Sander, Olga Klimecki. Impact
of
couple conflict and mediation on how romantic partners are seen: An
fMRI study. Cortex, 2020; 130: 302 DOI: 10.1016/j.cortex.2020.04.036 ==========================================================================
Link to news story:
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/07/200729114735.htm
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