We've had a ton of rainy days, cooler temps, I even lit the fire a few days to warm the house up, not much of a summer. Meh.
Do you ever try to escape to a vacation spot? Sometimes the grass is greener somewher else, at least for a season. 
People in New York flock to Florida when the cold weather comes. I don't do
it, but if I had it my way, I'd go live in the desert southwest (of the USA) for the winter or even permanently.
I like the way you describe helping the kids. Mine are still pretty young, but I'm hopeful that when they get older they still live close to me.
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